NVC USA Meeting 18 Dec 2005
Contents
Planning Meeting of the NVC USA Project
9-10:30am Pacific time
Attending:
- Kit Miller
- John Abbe
- John Karvel
- Paul Rentz
- Margarita Mac
- Mary Mackenzie
- Jane Connor
- Judi Lardner
- Rick Smith
- Meta Hough
Purpose
Question about purpose came up. (Kit) The conference is a strategy to help support NVC communities
- Develop culture where conflict is not seen as a problem, but as part of the natural flow.
- Mentor new communities by older communities
- 501c(3)
- hiring
- what goes into an intro training packet
Also address how to work as US group as part of a global community
Meta: Not necessarily non-conference. Includes things we would do between now and June 30, such as
- Mediation resource packet
- Support network for communities in conflict
- Publicly available resource - pointer to all (hope wiki will be that)
- Poll of what is needed (can be done during Compassion In Action Outreach)
Examples of information that is out there:
Tiffany Meyer and Stuart Watson's
- toolkits (ORNCC)
- Relationship Building
- Community Development
- Event Coordination
- Startup documents (pdf and doc)
- Newsletters (pdf and doc)
Websites for events: Jane's examples of : http://www.leaderful.newyorkintensive.org and http://www.newyorkintensive.org
Action item: Kit will talk with John Kinyon about Mediation packet and other info.
John: Working on and advocating http://www.nvcwiki.com
Jane: leaderful event in April http://www.leaderful.newyorkintensive.org
Action item : John Abbe - set up Yahoo mailing list (done)
Sociocracy
synopsis: Emphasize 'power with' in decision making process
Who is attending the training in January in San Francisco hosted by BayNVC?
Possibly: Kit, Mary, Rick and maybe Meta
Meta: friendsOfNVC listed 6 trainings
Rick: here's what I found listed for North America
- Dec 2, Jan 3, 4 (evening introductions) Atlanta, Georgia, USA
- Dec 3-4 (can substitute Jan 5 intensive), Jan 6-8 (series) Atlanta, Georgia, USA
- Jan 11-12, Feb 15-16, Mar 14 (series) Montreal, Canada
- Jan 28-29 San Francisco, California, USA
- Mar 15-16, Apr 12-13, May 16 (series) Montreal, Canada
- May 17-18, Jun 14-15, Aug 22 (series) Montreal, Canada
Kit: after January meeting, maybe the trainer could join in
Compassion In Action Outreach Update
Rick: wrote or left messages for 16 people, heard back from one (by meeting time).
John: Mississippi and Alaska - left messages. There's an IIT in Yukon, so hopeful for more response.
Judi: 2 people in Maine, Cynthia in Georgia (has many contacts)
Jane: NY people interested; defer others until after the holiday - January
Kit: Hawaii -invited; Boston - in conference call - put out invitation;
Margarita: 4 people - wrote up what people wanted in terms of support and put on the wiki
Kit: it's right before a leader '06 retreat, so people will be there
Strategy for Building Community at Conference
Judi and Jane's ideas
- empathy group
- support team
- specific space for connection - somewhere people can go
Margarita will join Judi and Jane.
Wanting others to join
- wanting co-ownership of supporting connection in community
- create hospitality team
- empathizers and connectors
John Abbe: add this to outreach questions; could have a community building page on http://www.nvcwiki.com
Mary: appreciate to Judi and Jane for what they are doing
Playback Theater
Christopher Ellinger
- willing to come
- http://www.truestorytheater.org/
Kit will have description on registration page
Agenda for next time
Question: Margarita: want to know more about observer circle (in inviting people from outreach)
Kit: want leadership circle instead of a single leader; want to include outer circle for people supporting; haven't talked about it clearly.
Agenda:
- talk about roles
- Logo: request: seek out artist / graphic designer