Request vs. Demand

	Request	Demand
Attention	Attention is on the needs of others and myself	Attention is on strategies
Intention	To get everyones needs fulfilled	To get the others to do what I want
Appreciation	My appreciation for the other person does not change, if the other one says "No."	I do not appreciate the other person as much, if the other one says "No."
Trust	I trust, that my needs will be considered and satisfied.	I am scared, that my needs do not count.