NVC Mentorship and Coaching Directory

This is a directory of mentors and coaches with NVC experience, who can work with you one-on-one by phone or face-to-face. (Important note: Presence on this list does not imply endorsement by CNVC, by NVC Wiki, or by any other individual or organization. Please use your judgment in selecting a mentor/coach, and carefully consider their experience and qualifications.)

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Jeff Brown

• My languages: English
• My location(s): St. Louis, Missouri, USA
• I offer mentoring/coaching by phone (yes/no): yes
• I offer mentoring/coaching face-to-face (yes/no): yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: US $65/hour or 4 sessions for $200 ($50 each); fees negotiable
• My level of NVC experience: I am a certified CNVC trainer, traveling throughout the U.S. offering NVC and counseling and coaching individuals, couples and organizations.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I offer is: a blend of counseling and coaching, combining practical and spiritual approaches
• More about me: I am on the verge of receiving my master's degree in Counseling Psychology (this summer) from the University of Santa Monica in Los Angeles, CA. I am trained in community mediation and victim-offender reconciliation, and am the North American distributor of the NVC Dance Floors (created by Gina Lawrie and Bridget Belgrave of the U.K.)
• How to contact me: jeff@heartfeltcommunication.com or 812-320-3842, or toll free at 877-755-0883
• Date when I last updated this information: June 13, 2007

Kelly Bryson

• My languages: English
• My location: Aptos, CA, USA
• I offer mentoring/coaching by phone: yes
• I offer mentoring/coaching face-to-face: yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: $100/hour, or fees negotiable; also am a licensed MFT therapist, fees $140/hour, accept most forms of health insurance coverage
• My level of NVC experience: I have been a certified CNVC trainer for over 20 years, training across the U.S. and in Northern Ireland, the Balkans and Middle East.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I am most interested in doing is: Assisting individuals to achieve a balance between their needs and society's needs, "balancing passion for self with compassion for others"; I believe in being "satisfyingly selfish".
• More about me: I am the author of "Don't be Nice, Be Real - Balancing Passion for Self with Compassion for Others" have appeared on many TV & Radio shows, am a humorist, singer/performer. I have been a keynote speaker (National Montessori, CA Peace Summit), presented at the Association for Global New Thought conference and train, present and consult with corporations (Bristol Myers, Tony Robbins, Paul Mitchell), churches (all flavors), schools, (U.Cal.L.B., Body/Mind College, School of Healing Arts), clubs (Optimists) and organizations.
• How to contact me: Website: www.LanguageOfCompassion.com, kelly@languageofcompassion.com, or 831-462-3277
• Date when I last updated this information: June 15, 2007

Conal Elliott

• My languages: English
• My location(s): San Andreas, California, USA
• I do mentoring/coaching by phone (yes/no): yes
• I do mentoring/coaching face-to-face (yes/no): yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: sliding scale, typically $35-75. I enjoy trades.
• My level of NVC experience: Immersed since Spring 2003, attended 9-day residential intensive (IIT) in 2004 and several trainings. Internally certified NVC trainer. I've been leading workshops (1 hour to 18 hours) and working with clients since Spring 2005, usually with my life partner Holly.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I am most interested in doing is: intimate relationships (including non-traditional), family, living powerfully (with choice and compassion and without self-compromise), living from Center/Spirit. I am particularly gifted in clarity & essence.
• More about me: See Awakening Compassion (NVC work), "NVC Evolves" (open blog), "Emergence of NVC" (a bottom-up vision for learning, living, sharing, and evolving NVC).
• How to contact me: info@awakeningcompassion.com, +1.209.754.4773
• Date when I last updated this information: June 13, 2007

Bob Gailer

• My languages: English
• My location(s): California
• I do mentoring/coaching by phone (yes/no): yes
• I do mentoring/coaching face-to-face (yes/no): yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: $60/hour negotiable and package discounts available.
• My level of NVC experience: Practicing since 2001. Hundreds of hours of training under Marshall and BayNVC Leadership. I have taught intros, led practice groups, coached individuals.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I am most interested in doing is: helping women who are in stressful relationships with their parents to come to peace with the struggle and heal the relationships.
• More about me: Masters in Divinity degree. Also trained in Option Dialog and ReEvaluation Counseling.
• How to contact me: 510-978-4454 or toll-free 866-GAILER-3. bgailer at alum dot rpi dot edu. Heartfelt Communication
• Date when I last updated this information: June 12, 2007.

Jacob Gotwals

• My languages: English
• My location(s): United States (New Mexico)
• I do mentoring/coaching by phone (yes/no): yes
• I do mentoring/coaching face-to-face (yes/no): yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: US$60 per hour. (Discount of up to 25% available for people teaching/sharing NVC.)
• My level of NVC experience: I am certified by CNVC as a NVC Trainer. I have been practicing NVC since 2000, and I have been teaching small classes and practice groups for the last few years, as well as helping create a stronger local NVC community in New Mexico. I am the leader of the New Mexico Coordinating Circle http://groups.google.com/group/nmcc-discussion?hl=en and I am on the board of directors of the New Mexico Network for Nonviolent Communication http://nvc-nm.org/welcome.html
• The type of mentoring/coaching I am most interested in doing is: I especially enjoy working with people who have an intermediate to advanced level of experience practicing NVC, people who are beginning to learn to share/teach NVC, and people who are working to create stronger local NVC communities.
• More about me: I am credentialed by the International Coach Federation (Associate Certified Coach - ACC), and I have a Ph.D. in Computer Science. For more information, see my web site: http://humanpotentialarts.com/about.htm
• How to contact me: See my web site for contact information: http://humanpotentialarts.com/connection.html
• Date when I last updated this information: June 12, 2007

Jacob Griscom

• My languages: English, Spanish
• My location(s): Nevada City, CA
• I do mentoring/coaching by phone (yes/no): yes
• I do mentoring/coaching face-to-face (yes/no): yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: $85/hour
• My level of NVC experience: I've have been practicing, speaking, and teaching since 2003. I have worked with individuals, couples, groups, and large audiences.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I am most interested in doing is: I love presenting to large audiences or working with groups and businesses, but I am open to hearing about any opportunity.
• More about me: I am the founder and owner of Jacob Griscom's Peaceful Living Holistic Healthcare Center (http://www.peacefullivinghhc.com), and I have been a keynote speaker a T. Harv Eker's Master of Influence event (see a clip on Google video here: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5915921060357398678&q)
• How to contact me: Please call (530) 478-1473
• Date when I last updated this information: July 14, 2007

Martha Lasley

• My languages: English
• My location: Pennsylvania, United States
• I do mentoring/coaching by phone: yes
• I do mentoring/coaching face-to-face: yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: US $400 per month, AND I offer deep discounts to people teaching/sharing NVC.
• My level of NVC experience: I've been teaching NVC since 2002 and am passionate about taking NVC into organizations, because that's where I have the most hope that NVC can spread rapidly. I spend a lot of time in India, because I love the culture of vibrancy, presence, and receptivity to NVC.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I most enjoy: I love working with social activists, leaders and visionaries. A full-time coach since 1997, I especially enjoy helping people design their ideal future.
• More about me: As a co-founder of CoachingthatWorks.com, we are the only coaching school that offers a coaching certification program that is steeped in NVC consciousness. You can take coaching courses in New York, San Francisco, London or Mumbai. Introductory two-day courses are available through Kripalu and the New York Open Center. My passion is helping NVC practitioners make a living doing really cool work. We're designing an accredited facilitators certification program that is infused with NVC, love and hope. Thanks to a grant from the Kellogg foundation, we're exploring new options for getting coaching into nonprofits. On Amazon, you can check out the book I wrote, Courageous Visions: How to Unleash Passionate Energy in Your Life and Your Organization.
• To contact me: Call 570-297-2270 or email martha@growingcompassion.org. Check out our web sites: CoachingthatWorks.com and GrowingCompassion.org (which offers NVC teleclasses from a wide variety of trainers).
• I last updated this information: June 14, 2007

Jim Manske

• My languages: English:
• My location(s): Albuquerque, NM~and we do a lot of travelling
• I do mentoring/coaching by phone (yes/no): Yes
• I do mentoring/coaching face-to-face (yes/no): Yes
• My request for mentoring/coaching: Sliding Scale based on .2%/hr of yearly income (e.g. $20K/year = $40/hr)
• My level of NVC experience: Practicing since 2000; Certified Trainer since 2004; leader of Global Coordinating Council and CNVC Leadership Team; Co-founder, NM Network for NVC; supporter of Peace Army of Costa Rica, Hawaii NVC, Oklahoma NVC, GA NVC; Assessor for CNVC Trainer Certification; Organizer for Albuquerque IITs and Special Sessions.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I am most interested in doing is: I enjoy all kinds of coaching, especially concerning relationships, mediation, and facilitation issues; teambuilding; I enjoy mentoring people through the Assessment and Certification process.
• More about me: You can read a brief bio @ http://radicalcompassion.squarespace.com/about-jim-and-jori/
• How to contact me: nvctrainer@gmail.com; +1.505.344-1305; skypename = jimjori
• Date when I last updated this information: June 13, 2007

Linda Rysenbry

• My languages: English
• My location(s): Australia (Sydney)
• I offer mentoring/coaching by phone (yes/no): yes
• I offer mentoring/coaching face-to-face (yes/no): yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: AUD$100 per hour. (Discount of up to 25% available for people teaching/sharing NVC.)
• My level of NVC experience: I am certified by CNVC as a NVC Trainer. I've been practicing NVC since 2002. For three years I have been focussing on bringing NVC to people in private sessions ranging from coaching to therapy, mediation to facilitated dialogues. I value creating a safe space for what is alive in relationships to unfold and heal. I appreciate the priviledge of supporting people to find love and honesty in times of challenge. I initiated and currently coordinate the Australian NVC Circle which is strengthening local NVC community and activites and I participate in the Regional NVC Circle for South East Asia and Oceania. I have led groups in NVC trainings, given presentations and group coaching sessions.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I offer is: offered over a series of sessions and is suited to those wishing to strengthen their self connection, intimate relationships or family connection. I especially enjoy working with people who have knowledge and experience with NVC, although that is not essential. I find that most everyone learns (or deepens) NVC as we work together with whatever it is that you are facing in life at present.
• More about me: I am also accredited as a Journey Therapist and have a lengthy background including leadership in business and corporate management along with mothering 3 teenagers. For more information, visit my website: www.nowrelate.com (I offer a series of inspirational notes via email) also visit www.nvcaustralia.com
• How to contact me: See either of the above web sites for contact information:
• Date when I last updated this information: June 13, 2007

Jeyanthy Siva

• My languages: English and Tamil
• My location(s): Based in Sri Lanka and travel to Europe and other places
• I offer mentoring/coaching by phone (yes/no): yes
• I offer mentoring/coaching face-to-face (yes/no): yes
• My fees for mentoring/coaching: Euros 100/hour or 150/1.5 hrs for couple work. Rupees 2500/hr for internationals living in Sri Lanka. Pay as can or informal trade in time or logistical help for Sri Lankans. As with everything in life, negotiable according to circumstance and needs.
• My level of NVC experience: I have been learning and teaching NVC for ten years. Not certified through CNVC. In Sri Lanka, Europe and sometimes U.S. Offering NVC and counseling/coaching for individuals, couples and organizations.
• The type of mentoring/coaching I offer is: counseling, coaching, mediation. Also faciliating meetings in organizations.
• More about me: My work is spiritual based (influence from Hinduism and Buddhism) but definitely not religious. I incorporate Joanna Macy's thinking a lot as well, esp. on grief work. My work is shifting from purely NVC training which I did for the past many years into new things that are still in the making and not yet definable. For instance, Feb of this year (2007), I facilitated a project planning meeting of inter-religious clergy for 4 faiths (Buddhist Monks, Hindu Iyars, Muslim Malawis and Christen Priests) who are doing peace projects together in a very polarized and divided war situation in Sri Lanka. In June, I helped a couple in UK create an alternative wedding ceremony incorporating their two different spiritual traditions and ideals and facilitated the ceremony which was described by guests as "unforgettable" and "most meaningful wedding they have attended". With another trainer based in UK, I am planning to do some "diversity training" and NVC style mediation training in UK among police and members of the Tamil immigrant group in London in Oct...

For more information, go to this page: http://www.sandhi.org/SandhiPeopleJeyanthy.html#Endorsements

• How to contact me: jeyanthy.sandhi@gmail.com
• Date when I last updated this information: June 15, 2007