Evaluative words - Revision history

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Markus Pallo: added link to translation of evaluative words

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added link to translation of evaluative words

Callz at 19:24, 7 February 2006

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Callz at 19:24, 7 February 2006

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66.167.129.181 at 23:32, 23 January 2006

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66.167.129.181 at 23:32, 23 January 2006

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 | sad, angry, hurt, disappointment
 | appreciation, acknowledgment, recognition, consideration
 |-
 | threatened

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 |-
 | abandoned
-| terrified, hurt, bewildered, sad, frightened, lonely
+| terrified, hurt, bewilderment, sad, fright, lonely
 | Nurturing, connection, belonging, support, caring
 |-
 | abused
-| angry, frustrated, frightened
+| angry, frustration, fright
 | Caring, nurturing, support, emotional or physical wellbeing, consideration. Need for all living things to flourish.
 |-
-| (not) accepted
+| unaccepted
-| upset, scared, lonely
+| upset, fear, lonely
-| inclusion, connection, community, belonging, contribution, peer respect
+| inclusion, connection, community, belonging, contribution, peer respect, self-care
 |-
 | attacked
-| scared, angry
+| fearful, angry
 | safety
 |-
 | belittled
-| angry, frustrated, tense, distressed
+| angry, frustration, tense, distress
 | respect, autonomy, to be seen, acknowledgment, appreciation
 |-
 | betrayed
-| angry, hurt, disappointed, enraged
+| angry, hurt, disappointment, outrage
-| trust, dependability, honesty, honor ?? commitment, clarity,
+| trust, dependability, honesty, honor, commitment, clarity,
 |-
 | blamed
-| angry, scared, confused, antagonistic, hostile, bewildered, hurt
+| angry, scared, confusion, antagonistic, hostile, bewildered, hurt
 | Accountability, causality, fairness, justice
 |-

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-This list of feelings and needs are suggestions only; it's neither complete nor definitive. It's just an aid to translating words that are often confused with feelings. When these words are used to try to express to someone your feelings/emotions they do convey a sense of the emotions/feelings at play, but they also imply that someone is doing something to you and generally carry a message of wrongness or blame. (One interesting feature is that many of these mixed feeling/blame end with â€œ..ed.â€)
+This list of feelings and needs are suggestions only; it's neither complete nor definitive. It's just an aid to translating words that are often confused with feelings. When these words are used to try to express to someone your feelings/emotions they do convey a sense of the emotions/feelings at play, but they also imply that someone is doing something to you and generally carry a message of wrongness or blame. (One interesting feature is that many of these mixed feeling/blame end with ..ed.)
-For example, if I say â€œI feel abusedâ€ you may hear this as â€œyou abused me.â€ In contrast, words that express â€œpureâ€ feelings canâ€™t readily be heard that way: Itâ€™s hard to hear â€œI feel lonelyâ€ as â€œYou lonelied me.â€
+For example, if I say I feel abused you may hear this as you abused me. In contrast, words that express pure feelings can't readily be heard that way: It's hard to hear I feel lonely as You lonelied me.
-To use this list: when somebody says â€œIâ€™m feeling rejected,â€ a Giraffe might empathically translate this as:  â€œAre you feeling scared because you have a need for inclusion?â€
+To use this list: when somebody says I'm feeling rejected, a Giraffe might empathically translate this as:  Are you feeling scared because you have a need for inclusion?
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 | Righted
 | happy, joy, pleasure
-| resepct, trust, saftey, fairness
+| respect, trust, safety, fairness
 |-
 | Wanted
-| happy, confortable, calm
+| happy, comfortable, calm
 | belonging, inclusion, caring
 |}
       * feel free to add more

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-This list of feelings and needs are suggestions only; itâ€™s neither complete nor definitive. Itâ€™s just an aid to translating words that are often confused with feelings. When these words are used to try to express to someone your feelings/emotions they do convey a sense of the emotions/feelings at play, but they also imply that someone is doing something to you and generally carry a message of wrongness or blame. (One interesting feature is that many of these mixed feeling/blame end with â€œ..ed.â€)
+This list of feelings and needs are suggestions only; it's neither complete nor definitive. It's just an aid to translating words that are often confused with feelings. When these words are used to try to express to someone your feelings/emotions they do convey a sense of the emotions/feelings at play, but they also imply that someone is doing something to you and generally carry a message of wrongness or blame. (One interesting feature is that many of these mixed feeling/blame end with â€œ..ed.â€)
 For example, if I say â€œI feel abusedâ€ you may hear this as â€œyou abused me.â€ In contrast, words that express â€œpureâ€ feelings canâ€™t readily be heard that way: Itâ€™s hard to hear â€œI feel lonelyâ€ as â€œYou lonelied me.â€
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 They are usually verbs/adverbs or action words which have been made into nouns.To love. To act wisely.To show respect.
-But unlike real nouns such as chair , lettice, shoes etc, you cannot touch them or see them
+But unlike real nouns such as chair , lettuce, shoes etc, you cannot touch them or see them
 they stem from verbs/adverbs and are therefore actions , they also have meaning based on people's perception and experience. for example to be loving might mean give flowers to one person and to be loving to another might mean to give some one else space.

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		+	[[translating evaluative words \| Here]] you will find suggestions for [[translating evaluative words]] to giraffe feelings and [[needs]].

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 -Words mixing [[feelings]] & [[needs]]  -Possible Authentic Feeling(s)  -Possible basic need(s)
-bad - negative feelings - need
+bad - negative feeling - need
 abandoned - terrified, hurt, bewildered, sad, frightened, lonely - Nurturing, connection, belonging, support, caring

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−	-Words mixing ~~feeling~~ & needs -Possible Authentic Feeling(s) -Possible basic need(s)	+	-Words mixing [[feelings]] & [[needs]] -Possible Authentic Feeling(s) -Possible basic need(s)