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User:Mwi

2006-04-09T17:03:57Z

Mwi:

Hi, my full name is Markus Wittwer. I am currently living in Munich, Germany.

I you like to contact me, use the following ways:
* markus(dot)wittwer(at)web(dot)de (please replace (dot) and (at) by the appropriate symbols)
* Skype name: markus.wittwer

Please also have a look at my web-site [http://www.konergie.de konergie.de] (only in German)

Main Page

2006-03-10T19:35:20Z

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==General NVC topics==

*[[Empathy]] and [[Expression]]
*The basic [[Four part model]]
*[[Key differentiations]]

*[[Education]]
*[[Spirituality]]
*[[Social change]]
*[[Restorative justice]]
*[[Parenting]]

*[[Materials]]
*[[Stories]]
*[[Literature]]
*[[Songs]]
*[[Quotes]]
*[[Practice group exercises]]

[[Mailing lists]] about Nonviolent Communication

[[Links]] to NVC resources outside this wiki

[[Internet Relay Chat]] to talk with persons interested in NVC

==Projects using the wiki==

The [[NVC USA Project]] is planning for an 06 summmer NVC community organizing conference [[Compassion In Action]].

The [[NVC World Project]] is sprouting again.

==Other NVC wikis==

There are [[many NVC wikis]]. What to do?

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==News==
'''NVC Special Session 2006 cancelled'''

The NVC Special Session 2006 from 20 Aug.06 to 03. Sept.06 has been cancelled today. Apparently CNVC did not have enough funding for this project. Participating last year was a great experience for me, so if anyone comes up with some creative strategies to make this or something similar happen, I would truly enjoy that.

[[User:Mwi|Markus Wittwer]] 17:24, 9 March 2006 (CET)

I am mourning hearing this news! But I can imagine that something similar would be [http://www.empaatia.ee NVC Spring Session "Art of Living Together"] in Estonia from 12-18 April 2006. Our intention is to come together and create space where we really live NVC during those 7 days. We would like to have time for connecting, fun, play, learning and growth. There are still plenty of places available! People coming from "western" countries and contributing by "western" price would help us to support them who find it difficult to cover their expences for session.

Merike Kahju , 13:02, 10 March (CET)

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2006-03-10T19:34:52Z

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Welcome to NVC Wiki - a [[wiki]] for [[Nonviolent Communication]] (NVC).

'''Join us February 25-26, 2006 for the second [[NVC Wiki Day]]'''

Help [http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/MediaWiki_User's_Guide#For_readers for readers] and [http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/MediaWiki_User's_Guide#For_editors for editors]

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==General NVC topics==

*[[Empathy]] and [[Expression]]
*The basic [[Four part model]]
*[[Key differentiations]]

*[[Education]]
*[[Spirituality]]
*[[Social change]]
*[[Restorative justice]]
*[[Parenting]]

*[[Materials]]
*[[Stories]]
*[[Literature]]
*[[Songs]]
*[[Quotes]]
*[[Practice group exercises]]

[[Mailing lists]] about Nonviolent Communication

[[Links]] to NVC resources outside this wiki

[[Internet Relay Chat]] to talk with persons interested in NVC

==Projects using the wiki==

The [[NVC USA Project]] is planning for an 06 summmer NVC community organizing conference [[Compassion In Action]].

The [[NVC World Project]] is sprouting again.

==Other NVC wikis==

There are [[many NVC wikis]]. What to do?

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'''[[Feedback | Feedback of wiki users]]'''

'''[[NVC Wiki Technical Issues]]'''

'''[[Administration News]]'''

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==News==
'''NVC Summer Session 2006 cancelled'''

The NVC Summer Session 2006 from 20 Aug.06 to 03. Sept.06 has been cancelled today. Apparently CNVC did not have enough funding for this project. Participating last year was a great experience for me, so if anyone comes up with some creative strategies to make this or something similar happen, I would truly enjoy that.

[[User:Mwi|Markus Wittwer]] 17:24, 9 March 2006 (CET)

I am mourning hearing this news! But I can imagine that something similar would be [http://www.empaatia.ee NVC Spring Session "Art of Living Together"] in Estonia from 12-18 April 2006. Our intention is to come together and create space where we really live NVC during those 7 days. We would like to have time for connecting, fun, play, learning and growth. There are still plenty of places available! People coming from "western" countries and contributing by "western" price would help us to support them who find it difficult to cover their expences for session.

Merike Kahju , 13:02, 10 March (CET)

Main Page

2006-03-09T16:24:23Z

Mwi:

[[de:]]
[[fr:]]
Welcome to NVC Wiki - a [[wiki]] for [[Nonviolent Communication]] (NVC).

'''Join us February 25-26, 2006 for the second [[NVC Wiki Day]]'''

Help [http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/MediaWiki_User's_Guide#For_readers for readers] and [http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/MediaWiki_User's_Guide#For_editors for editors]

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==News==
'''NVC Summer Session 2006 cancelled'''

The NVC Summer Session 2006 has been cancelled today. Apparently CNVC did not have enough funding for this project. Participating last year was a great experience for me, so if anyone comes up with some creative strategies to make this or something similar happen, I would truly enjoy that.

[[User:Mwi|Markus Wittwer]] 17:24, 9 March 2006 (CET)

==General NVC topics==

*[[Empathy]] and [[Expression]]
*The basic [[Four part model]]
*[[Key differentiations]]

*[[Education]]
*[[Spirituality]]
*[[Social change]]
*[[Restorative justice]]
*[[Parenting]]

*[[Materials]]
*[[Stories]]
*[[Literature]]
*[[Songs]]
*[[Quotes]]
*[[Practice group exercises]]

[[Mailing lists]] about Nonviolent Communication

[[Links]] to NVC resources outside this wiki

[[Internet Relay Chat]] to talk with persons interested in NVC

==Projects using the wiki==

The [[NVC USA Project]] is planning for an 06 summmer NVC community organizing conference [[Compassion In Action]].

The [[NVC World Project]] is sprouting again.

==Other NVC wikis==

There are [[many NVC wikis]]. What to do?

-----

'''[[Feedback | Feedback of wiki users]]'''

'''[[NVC Wiki Technical Issues]]'''

'''[[Administration News]]'''

NVC Wiki design

2006-03-09T16:20:50Z

Mwi: /* something with NVC puppets */

== Suggestions for a logo ==

=== something colorfull :) ===
http://nvc-europe.org/SPIP/IMG/rubon0.gif          
http://nvc-europe.org/SPIP/IMG/ruboff0.gif 

=== something Global ===
http://nvc-europe.org/wiki/images/Wiki150-NVC_Wiki.png 
Made with [[wikipedia:Gimp|Gimp]]

=== something with NVC puppets ===
http://www.nvcwiki.com/images/nvcWikiLogoGiraf.png 
Thanks to John Wiley and Janette Heartwood

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I like it as a first shot, but it would not fulfill all my requirements for a logo in the long run. Thanks John and Janette.
[[User:Mwi|Markus Wittwer]] 17:20, 9 March 2006 (CET)
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=== something with spirit of nvc ===
http://www.nvcwiki.com/images/NvcWikiLogo.jpg 
Thanks to [[User:John Abbe | John Abbe]]

== Favicon ==

* http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Aide:FAQ_sur_MediaWiki
** [http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Aide:FAQ_sur_MediaWiki#Comment_changer_l.27ic.C3.B4ne_du_site_dans_la_barre_d.27adresse_.3F favicon]

== Help ! ==

Is it possible to have a logo more easy to understand on http://fr.nvcwiki.com ?

How do you translate ''Expression'' in french ?
:Actually the page [[Expression]] is still empty !
::Could someone put something in it to help me translate it in french ?

Many NVC wikis

2006-01-29T15:53:17Z

Mwi:

== Known NVC wikis ==

* NVC World - http://nvcworld.net/wiki/ ( start : 5 December 2005 )
* NVC Wiki - http://www.nvcwiki.com/ (this one :-) ( start : 13 July 2005 )
* nvc-europe - http://nvc-europe.org/wiki/ ( start : 24 April 2005 ) - mostly French
* speak freely - http://www.speakfreely.org.uk/wiki/ ( start : 24 November 2005 )
* Empathy Collective - http://empathycollective.net/wiki/ ( start : 13 December 2004 ) - on [[compassionate anarchism]], which includes [[NVC]] and other practices (e.g. [[wikipedia:Focusing|Focusing]]) and ideas (such as those of [[wikipedia:Carl Rogers|Carl Rogers]], [[Diogenes]] of Sinope, [[Max Stirner]], [[wikipedia:Mike Tyson|Mike Tyson]], [[wikipedia:Abraham Lincoln|Abraham Lincoln]] & many more in context to [[NVC]])
*Estonian NVC friends home page http://www.empaatia.ee (start Dec 2005)

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Several of us (John Abbe, Sophie Brown, DieudonnÃ©, Markus Wittwer, Markus Pallo at the beginning) had a phone call January 24, 2005 about some of these wikis.

Sophie will move the general-interest NVC content from the speak freely wiki to nvcwiki.com. They will keep their wiki for organizing their local [[practice group]]s.

DieudonnÃ© is willing for the French content to move from the nvc-europe wiki to the nvcwiki.org server. Markus Pallo will set up a French wiki on this server.

We also decided to have another [[NVC Wiki Day]] - February 25. Some other things we talked about are noted in [[NVC Wiki Technical Issues]].

In order to gather people around this NVC wiki project, DieudonnÃ© request us to build a [[Project constitution]].

Talk:Many NVC wikis

2006-01-09T09:31:09Z

Mwi:

Yesterday Linnaea Marvell (project manager of nvcworld) and i had a conversation about the wikis. We like to start a discussion with all nvc peoples involved in wiki technology for future plans of the wikis here.

Is there a reason why there are five wikis ?

In my point of view there is no need for five wikis, i would like to have the content in one wiki only so there is no need for interwiki links to other wikis which also have nvc information.

The nvcwiki.com was reserved without knowing about other wiki projects running, so today i know about others and like to find the best practice for all.

What i like to have ?

* One platform with all informations about nvc freely available.
* It should be possible to have language links configured for all countries. So it would be easy to get nvc informations in the language of the visitor.
* Its more easy to have one wiki running than maintenance for three wikis.

to be continued.

I am interested in your opinions and whats alife in you ?

[[User:Markus Pallo | Markus Pallo]] 17:20, 3 January 2006 (CET)

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personal preferences of markus noted. and empathycollective added.
i disagree i reconize your need for efficeny and order but i think the diversity and choice are in line with diversiry of tactics (space enought for all) and each will progress at the rate cooperative or competitivly or indypendent of the others. though i do feel apritiative to anybody who would take time to update simmilar pages on all 3.

[[User:callz | callz]]

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I get very tired when i imagine updating information on several pages every tinme i have something to say about NVC - i want more ease. Realistically, i probably will not do it, and imagine others also will also stay with one wiki.

I feel sad then, because i so much want there to be enough people working on one wiki so that it really "takes off" - has great content, and many people in the NVC network know about it and use it. Once there is a thriving wiki community, i'd be happy for people to split off new wikis - because they want to focus on a particular aspect of NVC or their group or organization, use a different license, etc.

Different languages make sense to me as a reason to have separate wikis at the start now - it seems that nvc-europe is primarily a French wiki. And the empathy collective is about many other things in addition to NVC, so i want it to remain separate.

That leaves us with three English-language, general NVC wikis: NVC World, NVC Wiki, and Speak Freely. I have some preference that 'the' NVC wiki not be associated with a particular project or organization (so that it is most welcoming to everyone), but my interest in having us start with only one wiki is so strong that i might be willing to let that go.

--[[User:John Abbe|John Abbe]] 07:32, 4 January 2006 (CET)

suggestion by [[User:John Abbe|John Abbe]], by email, to...

<blockquote> meet on IRC (Internet Relay Chat), January 19 or 20 at 8:00am U.S. West Coast would be afternoon in UK & Germany, and 9:30pm in India, which would allow all of us to participate. Any objections or other ideas? Preferences for 19 or 20?
 
 
We can probably find a way to do voice as well...
</blockquote>
ok for 19 and 20 for me.

--[[User:Dieudo|DieudonnÃ©]] 20:52, 4 January 2006 (CET)

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Meeting proposal on Skype :

* 20th of january, at 16:00 [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/UTC UTC],
** that is 8:00 am [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pacific_Standard_Time_Zone PST] (with PST = UTC-8 ),
** 9:30pm, 21:30 in India (with India time = UTC+5:30)

* People ok for that time : [[User:John Abbe|John]], [[User:Dieudo|DieudonnÃ©]], ...
* People not ok for that time : [[User: Markus Pallo|Markus Pallo]], [[User:Linnaea Marvell|Linnaea Marvell]]

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For me both the 19 and 20 january are not ok, i am finishing my mediation training this week and weekend (19-23 january) and i think i will not have access to any computer.
I think it would be not as easy to find a date for all people so i am confident that you will find a solution without me which will also be ok for me. If you have any other date proposals i would enjoy it. Next date not ok for me would be the 27-29 january.

--[[User:Markus Pallo|Markus Pallo]] 19:14, 6 January 2006 (CET)

I am not able to attend on the 20th at all I have a training that day. I am also not ok with the 21st. Anytime after the 22nd would work for me though.

--[[User:Linnaea Marvell|Linnaea Marvell]]

January 24 and 25 are both ok for me. Skype is also fine for me.

--[[User:Markus Pallo|Markus Pallo]] 8:40, 8 January 2006 (CET)

24, 25 and 26 are ok for me.

--[[User:Dieudo|DieudonnÃ©]] 18:35, 8 January 2006 (CET)

24, 25 and 26 are ok for me. Skype is also ok as long as it is just chat and no voice connection.

--[[User:Mwi|Markus]] 10:31, 9 January 2006 (CET)

The Dakini Speaks

2006-01-03T12:06:54Z

Mwi:

My friends, let's grow up. 
Let's stop pretending we don't know the deal here. 
Or if we truly haven't noticed, let's wake up and notice. 
Look: Everything that can be lost, will be lost. 
It's simple - how could we have missed it for so long? 
Let's grieve our losses fully, like human ripe beings. 
But please, let's not be so shocked by them. 
Let's not act so betrayed, 
As though life had broken her secret promise to us. 

Impermanence is life's only promise to us, 
And she keeps it with ruthless impeccability.

To a child, she seems cruel, but she is only wild, 
And her compassion exquisitely precise. 
Brilliantly penetrating, luminous with truth, 
She strips away the unreal to show us the real. 
This is the true ride - let's give ourselves to it! 
Let's stop making deals for a safe passage - 
There isn't one anyway, and the cost is too high. 
We are not children anymore.

The true human adult gives everything for what cannot be lost. 
Let's dance the wild dance of no hope.

''by Joyce Wellwood''

The Dakini Speaks

2006-01-03T12:05:39Z

Mwi:

My friends, let's grow up.
Let's stop pretending we don't know the deal here.
Or if we truly haven't noticed, let's wake up and notice.
Look: Everything that can be lost, will be lost.
It's simple - how could we have missed it for so long?
Let's grieve our losses fully, like human ripe beings.
But please, let's not be so shocked by them.
Let's not act so betrayed,
As though life had broken her secret promise to us.

Impermanence is life's only promise to us,
And she keeps it with ruthless impeccability.

To a child, she seems cruel, but she is only wild,
And her compassion exquisitely precise.
Brilliantly penetrating, luminous with truth,
She strips away the unreal to show us the real.
This is the true ride - let's give ourselves to it!
Let's stop making deals for a safe passage -
There isn't one anyway, and the cost is too high.
We are not children anymore.
The true human adult gives everything for what cannot be lost.
Let's dance the wild dance of no hope.

''by Joyce Wellwood''

Stories

2006-01-03T12:04:53Z

Mwi:

This page contains a collection of stories that people use for [[remembering|rememberings]] or that somehow illustrate specific aspects of [[NVC]].

* A [[Leaves of Grass|Poem]] out of [[Leaves of Grass]] by Walt Whitman
* [[The Dakini Speaks]] by Joyce Wellwood

Mailing lists

2006-01-03T12:02:35Z

Mwi: /* German */

Mailing lists about [[Nonviolent Communication]], sorted by main language spoken on the list.

[[CNVC]]'s list of mailing lists: http://www.cnvc.org/egroups.htm

== English ==

[http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FriendsOfNVC FriendsOfNVC] - announcement-only list from the [[Center for Nonviolent Communication]]

[http://non-violentcommunication.com/mailman/listinfo/nvc-tech_non-violentcommunication.com Nvc-tech] - for sharing information and support among those using the net and computers to support NVC

[http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SynergyCommunication SynergyCommunication] - for online ''practice'' of NVC

[http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PonderingNVC PonderingNVC] - for discussion of NVC

[http://groups.yahoo.com/group/cnvc-trainers cnvc-trainers] - open only to [[CNVC]]-certified trainers

[http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nvccertificationcandidates CNVC certification candidates] - for people in the CNVC certification process (or considering it)

[http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nvc-parenting/ NVC-Parenting] - for discussing NVC in parenting

[http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NVC-Social-Change NVC-Social-Change] - for discussing NVC and [[social change]]

[http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdGroup EdGroup] - for discussing NVC in education

== German ==
[http://de.groups.yahoo.com/group/GFK-Eltern-sein/ GFK-Eltern-sein] - EinfÃ¼hlsam erziehen mit GFK

[http://de.groups.yahoo.com/group/gfktrainer/ GFKTrainer] - fÃ¼r zertifizierte GFK-Trainer und welche die auf dem Weg zur Zertifizierung sind

[http://de.groups.yahoo.com/group/ngfk/ NGFK] - Informations-Netzwerk fÃ¼r alle, die im deuschsprachigen Raum am Thema GFK interessiert sind

Template:ISBN

2005-12-21T10:35:04Z

Mwi:

'''ISBN''' {{{1}}}

* [http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/{{{1}}}/ Find this book] on [[WikiPedia:Amazon.com|Amazon.com]]
* [http://search.barnesandnoble.com/bookSearch/isbnInquiry.asp?isbn={{{1}}} Find this book] on [[WikiPedia:Barnes & Noble|Barnes & Noble]]
* [http://www.booksprice.com/compare.do?searchType=isbn&inputData={{{1}}} Find this book] on [[WikiPedia:BooksPrice|BooksPrice]]

Giraffe honesty vs. Jackal honesty

2005-12-20T17:29:54Z

Mwi:

{| border=1
| '''Giraffe honesty'''
| '''Jackal honesty'''
|-
| Telling the other person how ''I'' feel, what I need
| Telling the other person, what is good or bad about ''him'' or how ''he'' is
|-
|}

Talk:Need vs. Strategy or request

2005-12-20T10:21:09Z

Mwi:

I removed the following example from the page. Although I see this as a valid example for the difference between needs and requests, I would rather choose an example that is less likely to trigger painful feelings in people.

{| border=1
| '''Need'''
| '''Strategy / Request'''
|-
| sexual expression
| would you... intercourse, anal, masterbation
|}

[[User:Mwi|Markus]] 11:21, 20 December 2005 (CET)

Need vs. Strategy or request

2005-12-20T10:18:55Z

Mwi: Removed the example, see the discussion page

{| border=1
| '''Need'''
| '''Strategy / Request'''
|-
| Abstract, no reference to a specific person, action or time
| Specific, doable, observable behaviour
|-
| Needs are ''a-scriptive'', it is difficult to put words on what is also described as "the universal energy that connects all of us". Need language is probably the closest we can get to verbally describe this universal energy.
| Descriptive
|-
| What I want to have ''fulfilled''
| What I want others or myself to ''do''
|}

Strategy;The Way in witch universally intrinsic Need(s) is/are fulfilled. That witch differs in the way you do or go about, the needs being the same, all shared between individual life forms, and the strategies being the unique different ways in time and space that mater exists in witch these satisfiers are attained.

Request vs. Demand

2005-12-19T12:29:44Z

Mwi:

{| border=1
|
| '''Request'''
| '''Demand'''
|-
| Attention
| Attention is on the needs of others and myself
| Attention is on strategies
|-
| Intention
| To get everyones needs fulfilled
| To get the others to do what I want
|-
| Appreciation
| My appreciation for the other person does not change, if the other one says "No."
| I do not appreciate the other person as much, if the other one says "No."
|-
| Trust
| I trust, that my needs will be considered and satisfied.
| I am scared, that my needs do not count.
|-
|}

Need vs. Strategy or request

2005-12-19T12:23:17Z

Mwi:

Feeling vs. Thought

2005-12-19T12:15:16Z

Mwi:

{| border=1
| '''Feeling'''
| '''Thought'''
|-
| personal, subjective
| Usually objective, unpersonal
|-
| Reaction triggered by an [[observation]], that is based on a [[value judgement]] (for example: "I need respect.")
| Using [[moralistic judgement]]s, I give an observation some meaning (for example: "This is direspectful!"
|}

Observation vs. Evaluation

2005-12-19T11:23:33Z

Mwi:

{| border=1
| '''Observation'''
| '''Evaluation'''
|-
| Sensual perception, i.e. what I see, hear, taste, smell.
| How I judge my perception or what I think about my perception
|-
|}

Observation vs. Evaluation

2005-12-19T11:23:19Z

Mwi:

{| border=1
|
| '''Observation'''
| '''Evaluation'''
|-
|
| Sensual perception, i.e. what I see, hear, taste, smell.
| How I judge my perception or what I think about my perception
|-
|}

Empathy vs. Sympathy

2005-12-19T11:12:24Z

Mwi:

{| border=1
|
| '''Empathy'''
| '''Sympath'''y
|-
| Focus of Attention
| The focus of attention is completely at the feelings and needs of the other
| The focus of attention ''switches'' between what's alive in the other and me
|-
|}

Help:Editing

2005-12-19T10:55:49Z

Mwi:

For a complete and readable help on Editing, please see the
[[Wikipedia:Help:Editing]] page at Wikipedia.

Stories

2005-12-14T11:39:49Z

Mwi:

Leaves of Grass

2005-12-14T11:38:51Z

Mwi:

I believe in the flash and the appetites, 
Seeing, hearing, feeling, are miracles, and each part and tag 
of me is a miracle. 
Divine am I inside and out and I make holy whatever I touch 
or IÂ´m touched from, 
The scent of these arm-pits aroma finer than prayer, 
This head more than churches, bibles and all the creeds. 

If I worship one thing more than another shall be the spread of my own body, or any part of it, 
translucent mould of me it shall be you! 

I dote on myself, there is a lot of me and all so luscious, 
Each moment and whatever happens thrills me with joy... 

O to realize space! 
The plenteousness of all, that there are no bounds, 
To emerge and be of the sky, of the sun and moon and flying 
clouds, as one with them. 

O while I live to be the ruler of live and not a slave, 
To meet live as a powerful conqueror. 

''From "Leaves of Grass" by Walt Whitman''

Stories

2005-12-14T11:28:19Z

Mwi:

This page contains a collection of stories that people use for [[remembering|rememberings]] or that somehow illustrate specific aspects of [[NVC]].

* [[Leaves of Grass]] by Walt Whitman

Template:Mainpage topics

2005-12-14T11:18:58Z

Mwi:

* [[Projects]]:
** The [[NVC USA Project]] is doing [[Compassion In Action Planning]] here.
*[[Key_differentiations|Key differentiations]]
*[[topic_education|Education]]
*[[topic_spirituality|Spirituality]]
*[[Stories]]
*[[Literature]]
*[[Links]]

Nonviolent Communication

2005-12-14T10:28:17Z

Mwi:

Nonviolent Communication (NVC), is a theory and practice intended to create a quality of connection among people such that they want to, and are able to, consider the needs of everyone involved in any given situation. It is also known as Compassionate Communication, because it's about learning to listen more compassionately, and to speak in ways that are likely to inspire compassion in others.

Nonviolent Communication is also the name of a book by Marshall Rosenberg explaining the theory/practice. (ISBN 1-8920-0503-4)

There is a large network of people sharing NVC through much of the world, with enough people working together, supporting each other, or even living together in some areas to qualify as communities. See http://cnvc.org/world.htm for a ''partial'' listing. Trainings are offered by the [[Center for Nonviolent Communication]] and many other organizations, some listed here: http://www.cnvc.org/network.aspx

Yet another name for it is Giraffe Language - we use giraffe as a symbol for the kind of communication we are teaching, and jackal (or in some areas of the world wolf or snake) as a symbol for the kind of communication that is the opposite of compassionate.

Also see [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_communication the Nonviolent Communication page on Wikipedia].

Nonviolent Communication

2005-12-14T10:10:41Z

Mwi:

Nonviolent Communication (NVC), is a theory and practice intended to create a quality of connection among people such that they want to, and are able to, consider the needs of everyone involved in any given situation. It is also known as Compassionate Communication, because it's about learning to listen more compassionately, and to speak in ways that are likely to inspire compassion in others.

Nonviolent Communication is also the name of a book by Marshall Rosenberg explaining the theory/practice. http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1892005034/

There is a large network of people sharing NVC through much of the world, with enough people working together, supporting each other, or even living together in some areas to qualify as communities. See http://cnvc.org/world.htm for a ''partial'' listing. Trainings are offered by the [[Center for Nonviolent Communication]] and many other organizations, some listed here: http://www.cnvc.org/network.aspx

Yet another name for it is Giraffe Language - we use giraffe as a symbol for the kind of communication we are teaching, and jackal (or in some areas of the world wolf or snake) as a symbol for the kind of communication that is the opposite of compassionate.

Also see [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_communication the Nonviolent Communication page on Wikipedia].

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== All [[NVC]] Wiki topics ==

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== Ideas ==

=== About Nonviolent Communication ===
* 4 ear model
* 4 steps : observing, feeling, needing, and requesting
* need list
* feeling list

=== social change ===

*prisons/justice
*education
*police
*corporations

Topic key differentiations

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Hi, my full name is Markus Wittwer. I am currently living in Munich, Germany.

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Literature

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Marshall Rosenberg sometimes mentions this literature in his trainings:

* Becker, Ernest; The revolution in psychiatrv: The new understanding of man. New York, Free Press, 1964.
* Becker, Ernest: The Birth and Death of Meaning. New York, Free Press 1971
* Benedict, Ruth; "Synergy-patterns of the good culture." Psychology Today, 1970.
* Bohm, David, On Dialogue, Routledge, 1996.
* Boserup, Anders; Mack, Andrew: War Without Weapons, Non-Violence in National Defence, New York: Schocken 1975
* Bowles, Samuel and Gintis, Herbert. Schooling in Capitalist America: Educational reform and the contradictions of economic life. New York: Basic Books, 1976.
* Buber, Martin. l and Thou. Scribner, New York. 1958
* Buber, Martin, Ich und Du
* BrÃ¼ck, Horst, Die Angst des Lehrers vor seinen SchÃ¼lern, Rororo, 1978
* BrÃ¼ck, Horst, Seminar der GefÃ¼hle, Rowohlt, 1986.
* Campbell, Joseph, Transformations of Myth Through Time, Harper & Row, 1990
* Campbell, Joseph, The Power of Myth, Anchor, 1991.
* Campbell, Joseph, Myths to Live by, Atlanta, 1993
* Cornell, Ann Weiser; The Power of Focusing: A Practical Guide to Emotional Self-Healing; Oakland, CA; New Harbinger Pub.; 1996
* Craig, James and Marguerite. Synergic Power. Berkeley, Cal.: Proactive Press, 1974
* Dass, Ram: The Only Dance There Is, New York, Harper & Row 1974
* Dass, Ram and Bush, Mirabai; Compassion in action: Setting out on the path of service; Bell Tower, N.Y. 1992
* Dass, Ram, & Gorman, Paul. How can I help?: Stories and reflections on service. New York, Knopf 1985 (dt. Titel: Wie kann ich helfen? Segen und PrÃ¼fung mitmenschlicher Zuwendung, Berlin, Sadhana 1994)
* de Chardin, Teilhard, Die menschliche Energie, 1966.
* Domhoff, G. W., Who Rules America?, Mayfield, 1998
* Ellis, Albert; A guide to rational living. Wilshire Book Co., 1961.
* Eisler Riane, the chalice and the blade, harper collins 1988
* Frankl, Viktor; Das Leiden am sinnlosen Leben, Herder Spektrum
* Frankl, Viktor; Der Mensch vor der Frage nach dem Sinn
* Frankl Viktor; Trotzdem Ja zum Leben sagen - Ein Kurs in Wundern (Original: A Course in Miracles, Penguin Arkana, 1975)
* Freire, Paulo; Pedagogy of the oppressed; Herder and Herder, 1971.
* Fromm, Erich. Escape from freedom. Holt, Rinehart & Winston
* Fromm, Erich. The art of loving. Harper & Row, 1956
* Gendlin, Eugene: Focusing. Selbsthilfe bei der LÃ¶sung persÃ¶nlicher Probleme. Reinbek: Rowohlt 2000
* Glenn, Michael and Kunnes, Richard; Repression or Revolution. Harper and Row 1973.
* Greenburg, Dan and Jacobs, Marcia. How to Make Yourself Miserable. Vintage Books, N. Y. 1987.
* Greenleaf, Robert K., The Power of Servant Leadership, Berrett Koehler 1998
* Harvey, O.J. Conceptual systems and personality organization. Harper & Row, 1961.
* Holt, John. How children fail. Pitman, New York. 1964.
* Johnson, Wendeli. Living with Change. New York: Harper and Row, 1972.
* Katz, Michael. Caste, bureaucracy and the schools.
* Katz, Michael. School reform: Past and present. Boston, Little, Brown & Co., 1971
* Kaufmann, Walter, Without guilt and iustice.
* Kelly, George A. The psychology of personal constructs. Volumes 1 & 2, Norton, New York, 1955
* Kornfield, Jack; A path with heart: A guide through the perils and promises of spiritual life; Bantam Books, N. Y. 1993. (dt.: Geh den Weg des Herzens. Meditationen fÃ¼r den Alltag. KÃ¶sel 1977)
* Krotoschin, Henry, Huna Praxis, Bauer, 1990
* Kurtz, Ernest, & Ketcham, Katherine; The spirituality of imperfection: Modern wisdom from classic stories; Bantam Books, N.Y.1992.
* Kushner, Harold: wenn guten Menschen BÃ¶ses widerfÃ¤hrt, 1986
* Lerner, M., Spirit Matters, Walsch Books, 2000.
* Lyon, Gracie. Constructive Criticism. Oakland, Cal.:IRT Press, 1977
* Macy, Joanna, Coming Back to Life: Practices to Reconnect Our Lives, Our World, New Society Publications, 1998.
* Macy, Joanna, Thich Nhat Hanh, World as Lover, World as Self, Parallax, 1991.
* Maslow, Abraham. Toward a psychology of being. Van Nostrand. Princeton, N.J. 1962
* McLaughlin, Corinne and Davidson, Gordon; Spiritual Politics: Changing the World from the Inside Out. Ballantine Books, N. Y . 1994.
* Milgram, Stanley. Obedience to authority. New York: Harper and Row, 1974 (dt.: Das Milgram-Experiment. Zur Gehorsamkeit gegenÃ¼ber AuthoritÃ¤t. Rowohlt 2000)
* Muller, Wayne; How, Then, Shall We Live; New York; Bantam Books, 1996.
* Muller, Wayne, Legacy of the Heart, The Spiritual Advantages of a Painful Childhood, Fireside, 1993
* Petersen, Hans-Christian; Open Space in Aktion, Junfermann
* Postman, Neil, and Weingartner, Charles, Teaching as a subversive activity. Delacorte, 1969.
* Postman, Neil, and Weingartner, Charles. The soft revolution: A student handbook fÃ¼r turning schools around. Delta, New York 1971
* Powell, John, The secret of staying in love. Argus, Niles, Illinois 1974.
* Powell, John, Why am I afraid to tell you who I am?
* Roach, Geshe Micheal, The Diamond Cutter, The Buddha on Strategies for Managing your Business and your Life, Doubleday, 2000
* Rogers, Carl. Freedom to learn. Charles E. Merrill, 1969.
* Rogers, Carl, Freedom to Learn tor the 80s, 1983.
* Rogers, Carl, Client-centered Therapy
* Rogers Carl; Die nicht-direktive Beratung. Counseling and Psychotherapy
* Rogers, Carl With E.T. Gendlin, D.J. Kiesler, and C.B. Truax (Eds.). The therapeutic relationship and its impact: A study of psychotherapy with schizophrenics. Madison: University of Wisconsin Press, 1967.
* Rogers, Carl. On personal power. Delacorte, New York 1977
* Rokeach, Milton: the open and closed mind
* Rokeach, Milton: the nature of human values
* Rokeach, Milton: understanding human values: individual and societal
* Rosenberg, Marshall. Mutual Education. Seattle: Special Child Publications, 1972
* Ryan, William, Blaming the Victim. New York: Vintage Books, 1971.
* Scheff, Thomas; Labeling Madness. Englewood Cliffs, N.J. Prentice- Hall, 1975
* Sharp, Gene. Social Power and Political Freedom. Boston. Porter Sargent. 1980
* Schumacher, E. F., A guide fÃ¼r the perplexed, Abacus, 1977. (z.B. vier Fragen: Was geht wirklich in meiner inneren Welt vor? Was geht in der inneren Welt anderer Wesen vor? Wie sehe ich in den Augen anderer Wesen aus? Was beobachte ich in der Welt um mich herum?)
* Schumacher, E. F., Small is Beautiful, A Study of Economics as if People Mattered, Abacus, 1975.
* Schumacher, E. F., Good Work, Abacus, 1980.
* Steiner, Claude: Wie man LebensplÃ¤ne verÃ¤ndert. Junfermann 2000
* Szasz, Thomas, The Myth of Mental Illness, Harper & Collins, 1984.
* Szasz, Thomas; Ideology and Insanity. New York: Doubleday, 1970.
* Tagore, Rabindranath: Sadhana. Der Weg zum wahren Leben. Hyperion 1996
* Whitehead, J., Action Research in Organisations (J. McNiff ed.), Routledge, 2001.
* Whitman, Walt; The Complete Poems, Viking Press, 1990
* Wilber, Ken, Grace and Grit, Shambala, 1991 (Deutsch: Mut und Gnade / Ken Wilber erzÃ¤hlt die Geschichte seiner grossen Liebe zu Treya Wilber, die an Brustkrebs starb)
* Wilber, Ken, A Brief History of Everything, Gill & Macmillan, 1996
* Wilber, Ken, The Marriage of Sense and Soul - Integrating Science and Religion, Broadway Books, 1998
* Wingo, Otha, Das Huna Arbeitsbuch, Knaur, 1994
* Wink, Walter. Engaging the Powers. Fortress Press, Minneapolis, 1992.
* Wink, Walter; The Powers That Be: Theology For A New Millenium. Doubleday, NY 1998.
* Witten, Dona, Akong Rinpoche, Beruf als Weg, Theseus, 1998.

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NVC

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Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

see [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_communication the Nonviolent communication page on Wikipedia] for an introduction.