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− | * | + | Differentiations about the four parts ([[Observation]], [[Feeling]], [[Need]], [[Request]]): |
− | * | + | * [[Observation vs. Evaluation]] |
− | * | + | * [[Feeling vs. Thought]] |
− | * | + | * [[Need vs. Strategy or request]] |
− | *Giraffe | + | * [[Request vs. Demand]] |
+ | * [[Power-with vs. Power-over]] | ||
+ | * [[Choice vs. Submission or rebellion]] | ||
+ | * [[Interdependence vs. Dependence or independence]] | ||
+ | * [[Persisting vs. Demanding]] | ||
+ | |||
+ | Differentiations about empathy: | ||
+ | * [[Being giraffe vs. Doing giraffe]] | ||
+ | * [[Empathy vs. Sympathy]] | ||
+ | * [[Empathy vs. Advice]] | ||
+ | * [[Empathy vs. Analysis]] | ||
+ | * [[Empathy vs. Reassurance]] | ||
+ | * [[Empathy vs. Storytelling]] | ||
+ | * [[Guessing vs. Knowing]] | ||
+ | * [[Empathic sensing vs. Intellectual guessing]] | ||
+ | |||
+ | More: | ||
+ | * [[Idiomatic giraffe vs. Classical Giraffe]] | ||
+ | * [[Stimulus vs. Cause]] | ||
+ | * [[Natural vs. Habitual]] | ||
+ | * [[Love as a need vs. Love as a feeling]] | ||
+ | * [[Mourning vs. Giving up]] | ||
+ | * [[Self-discipline vs. Obedience]] | ||
+ | * [[Instrinsic motivation vs. Extrinsic motivation]] | ||
+ | * [[Self & other vs. Jackal & giraffe]] | ||
+ | * [[Exchange vs. Gifting]] | ||
+ | |||
+ | Jackal/Giraffe differentiations: | ||
+ | * [[Giraffe honesty vs. Jackal honesty]] | ||
+ | * [[Protective use of force vs. Punitive use of force]] | ||
+ | * [[Appreciation vs. Approval, compliments or praise]] | ||
+ | * [[Value judgment vs. Moralistic judgment]] | ||
+ | * [[Life-connected vs. Life-alienated]] | ||
+ | * [[Shift vs. Compromise]] | ||
+ | * [[Respect for authority vs. Fear of authority]] | ||
+ | * [[Vulnerability vs. Weakness]] | ||
+ | * [[Self-empathy vs. Acting out, repressing, or wallowing]] | ||
+ | * [[Being nice vs. Giraffe]] |
Revision as of 11:28, 19 December 2005
Differentiations about the four parts (Observation, Feeling, Need, Request):
- Observation vs. Evaluation
- Feeling vs. Thought
- Need vs. Strategy or request
- Request vs. Demand
- Power-with vs. Power-over
- Choice vs. Submission or rebellion
- Interdependence vs. Dependence or independence
- Persisting vs. Demanding
Differentiations about empathy:
- Being giraffe vs. Doing giraffe
- Empathy vs. Sympathy
- Empathy vs. Advice
- Empathy vs. Analysis
- Empathy vs. Reassurance
- Empathy vs. Storytelling
- Guessing vs. Knowing
- Empathic sensing vs. Intellectual guessing
More:
- Idiomatic giraffe vs. Classical Giraffe
- Stimulus vs. Cause
- Natural vs. Habitual
- Love as a need vs. Love as a feeling
- Mourning vs. Giving up
- Self-discipline vs. Obedience
- Instrinsic motivation vs. Extrinsic motivation
- Self & other vs. Jackal & giraffe
- Exchange vs. Gifting
Jackal/Giraffe differentiations:
- Giraffe honesty vs. Jackal honesty
- Protective use of force vs. Punitive use of force
- Appreciation vs. Approval, compliments or praise
- Value judgment vs. Moralistic judgment
- Life-connected vs. Life-alienated
- Shift vs. Compromise
- Respect for authority vs. Fear of authority
- Vulnerability vs. Weakness
- Self-empathy vs. Acting out, repressing, or wallowing
- Being nice vs. Giraffe