Difference between revisions of "Key differentiations"

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*Observations / Evaluations
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Differentiations about the four parts ([[Observation]], [[Feeling]], [[Need]], [[Request]]):
*Feelings / Thoughts
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* [[Observation vs. Evaluation]]
*Needs / Strategies
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* [[Feeling vs. Thought]]
*Requests / Demands
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* [[Need vs. Strategy or request]]
*Giraffe Honesty / Jackal Honesty
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* [[Request vs. Demand]]
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* [[Power-with vs. Power-over]]
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* [[Choice vs. Submission or rebellion]]
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* [[Interdependence vs. Dependence or independence]]
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* [[Persisting vs. Demanding]]
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Differentiations about empathy:
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* [[Being giraffe vs. Doing giraffe]]
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* [[Empathy vs. Sympathy]]
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* [[Empathy vs. Advice]]
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* [[Empathy vs. Analysis]]
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* [[Empathy vs. Reassurance]]
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* [[Empathy vs. Storytelling]]
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* [[Guessing vs. Knowing]]
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* [[Empathic sensing vs. Intellectual guessing]]
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More:
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* [[Idiomatic giraffe vs. Classical Giraffe]]
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* [[Stimulus vs. Cause]]
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* [[Natural vs. Habitual]]
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* [[Love as a need vs. Love as a feeling]]
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* [[Mourning vs. Giving up]]
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* [[Self-discipline vs. Obedience]]
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* [[Instrinsic motivation vs. Extrinsic motivation]]
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* [[Self & other vs. Jackal & giraffe]]
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* [[Exchange vs. Gifting]]
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Jackal/Giraffe differentiations:
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* [[Giraffe honesty vs. Jackal honesty]]
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* [[Protective use of force vs. Punitive use of force]]
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* [[Appreciation vs. Approval, compliments or praise]]
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* [[Value judgment vs. Moralistic judgment]]
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* [[Life-connected vs. Life-alienated]]
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* [[Shift vs. Compromise]]
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* [[Respect for authority vs. Fear of authority]]
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* [[Vulnerability vs. Weakness]]
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* [[Self-empathy vs. Acting out, repressing, or wallowing]]
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* [[Being nice vs. Giraffe]]

Revision as of 12:28, 19 December 2005

Differentiations about the four parts (Observation, Feeling, Need, Request):

Differentiations about empathy:

More:

Jackal/Giraffe differentiations: