Jackal speak

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Jackal Speak

“Jackal” is a term for a culturally inherited mindset that justifies certain claims and obligates compliance, according to externally established rights and standards.) When we’re triggered, jackalized/externalized interpretations resonate strongly. In such cases, people often gravitate to choices like “consideration”, “respect”, “cooperation”, “consistency”, “appreciation”, “honesty”, and “safety”, which are easy to interpret as being tied to changes in other people’s behavior.

With practice, Giraffe is becoming easier & easier. Statements like “it’s easier to label” (or clearer, more succinct, etc), “compromise is necessary”, or “violence is inevitable to resolve conflicts”, are self-fulfilling prophecies. More precise and life-connected would be “I have a habit of labeling, so I can do it with little conscious effort”.

You are *anything* exists as Jackal speak. Demands Moral Judgements (as opposed to Value Judgements) Evaluations Diagnosis Amptssprache Assumptions Interpretation Expectation Obligation Duty Blame Guilt Shame No-Choice Non-Feelings Nominalizations